Mom Blames Target for 22-Year-Old Son's Suicide, Files Lawsuit
Photo: Facebook/Graham Gentles ‘Memorial Page’
Three days after Graham Gentles was fired without warning from the Pasadena Target where he worked last July, the 22-year-old committed suicide. Now his mother, Virginia Gentles, is calling for Target to take responsibility for their role in his death. In the wrongful death lawsuit Gentles filed against Target in L.A., she alleges that the company engaged in intentional infliction of emotional distress toward her son, who had Asperger’s Syndrome, negligence and false imprisonment as part of a company practice of subjecting employees to a “walk of shame” before they are let go.
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"The walk of shame is a Target policy to purposely cause shame, embarrassment and emotional distress to any Target employee who is suspected of stealing from Target,” the suit, filed last Thursday, states,according to NBC Los Angeles. ”The policy consists of employees being arrested and paraded in handcuffs through the Target store in full view of co-workers and customers.” The suit alleges that’s exactly what happened on July 15, 2014 to Gentles, who was later released and not charged with any crime. (The true reason for his firing, according to mom, was a verbal altercation Gentles had with another employee, off-site, months prior).
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“This is about holding Target accountable,” Virginia Gentles tells Yahoo Parenting of the incident that so upset her son he jumped off the roof of a hotel in Monrovia, California to his death. “My point to get this barbaric [‘walk of shame’] practice to stop.”
Graham and Virginia Gentles. Photo: Facebook/Graham Gentles ‘Memorial Page’
Target, however, denies that these “walks” even take place. “Our thoughts and sympathies go out to the friends and family of this individual,” Molly Snyder, Group Manager of Public Relations for Target in Minneapolis, emailed Yahoo Parenting in response to request for comment. “The allegations in the lawsuit of a Target policy or practice are simply not true. There is no such policy. As this is pending litigation, we don’t have further comment at this time.”
Former employees have been reaching out to Gentles since she set up a memorial page to Graham on Facebook, says the mother, to share their own “shame” horror stories. “I don’t understand how Target can say this is not happening,” she insists. “I have received many messages from employees and former employees. Some were forced in the walk and others witnessed. They all describe it the same. I am speaking of Targets across the country.” Gentles says she received a note from an employee who witnessed a “walk” in which security staff were “laughing and high fiving.”
Gentles had many close friends he worked with at Target, says mom – she notes that many of the 200 mourners who turned out for his funeral were fellow employees – so being ousted from the job stunned him to the core. “Other people know how to let things roll off of their back,” says Gentles. But her son’s Asperger’s Syndrome kept him locked in the feelings of torment from that day. “The only thing he said to me at that moment was, ‘Mom this is the worst day of my life,’” Gentles told local media. Her attorney explained to ABC 7 that the emotional distress they’re suing over was crippling. “This was part of his extended family,” said Patrick McNicholas. “He had indicated that he felt safe there. This is where his friends were, so he felt as though he lost all of that in one moment.”
With this lawsuit, Gentles hopes to change the culture of humiliation that she says her son endured, so no one else becomes a victim. “My son was such a nice young man,” she laments. “I just want Target to be honest and admit that this happened and that they won’t let it happen again.”
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