Ready to make your sex life as hot as the temperature outside? In honor of longer days and balmy nights, we’ve got 17 new ways for you and your guy to sizzle this season. Turn up the AC, ladies -- our ideas are so hot, you might melt!
Attempt a Fitting Room Quickie
You need a new bikini (and a summer dress...or three) and your guy is along for the shopping trip. While he may not enjoy hours of window shopping, he'll be pleasantly surprised when you invite him in to help you into -- or rather, out of -- a garment. You'll need to act quickly before you get caught -- so opt for a bigger department store where the dressing room attendants will be preoccupied with other customers. If you can swing it, a room with a chair and mirrors on both sides will make it easy for you to straddle him as he enjoy the panoramic view of you too going at it. Most importantly: try to be quiet as you both reach your peak.
Also see: Do It Now! The Joy of the High-Risk Quickie
Put It On Display
We get it (and feel it): It's so hot outside. You don't want your curtains covering the air conditioner if you don't have central air, or if you're lucky enough to live where having a window open gives you enough breeze to survive the heat wave. Take a chance in front of that mirror by getting your guy all revved up and asking him to try doggystyle...right in front of the open window! The thrill of someone walking or driving by and seeing you two in action will really turn him on, and by picking the from-behind approach, you're at least concealing your faces from being recognized. (Just make sure you're parallel with the window!) To really challenge yourself: let your orgasm get loud, it'll double his excitement (and your pleasure.) When you're finished, lying in front of that air conditioner or fan is a nice cool down.
Also see: Your Summer Sex Bucket List: 5 Must-Try Ideas
Workin' At the Car Wash...
Skip the drive-through car wash this summer and make it a sexy warm-up for you and your guy instead! Opt for minimal clothing (because it's so hot, of course) and go outside to wash your guy's car. To make it extra enticing for him, don't invite him out to join, but make sure you're in plain view of wherever he's sitting inside. Pull out those Paris Hilton eating a hamburger moves, and he'll promptly come out to join. We bet you'll be both inside getting it on in the shower in no time. Or better yet, up against the side of your house for a soapy, sweaty quickie.
Borrow a Friend's House
Weddings, barbeques, family reunions and vacations: summertime is all about socializing, and your calendar is pretty much booked until Labor Day. Being at someone else's home offers a risky (and incredibly sexy) opportunity to mark off some of those location-specific sex acts from your bucket list. The key here is mastering the art of a quickie (read how to here) and stifling those moans the best you can. Make it an irresistible challenge for your guy by giving him a list of places you want him to make you orgasm at the places you're going: on the kitchen sink while everyone's asleep on vacation, at the reception hall in the bathroom -- or even in the ocean while the rest of the gang is playing beach volleyball. The options are limitless.rbeques, family reunions and vacations: summertime is all about socializing, and your calendar is pretty much booked until Labor Day. Being at someone else's home offers a risky (and incredibly sexy) opportunity to mark off some of those location-specific sex acts from your bucket list. The key here is mastering the art of a quickie (read how to here) and stifling those moans the best you can. Make it an irresistible challenge for your guy by giving him a list of places you want him to make you orgasm at the places you're going: on the kitchen sink while everyone's asleep on vacation, at the reception hall in the bathroom -- or even in the ocean while the rest of the gang is playing beach volleyball. The options are limitless.
Travel like an Exhibitionist
Going on vacation this summer? Get creative with your new scenery -- sneak out on the balcony of your hotel, paddle a boat out into the middle of the lake, or go swimming late at night and see where the mood takes you. When you get back, just thinking about what you did where is sure to send you into a pleasure tizzy.
Let the top down, or at least roll down the windows, on your next roadtrip and start to head South (if you catch our drift). It’s your choice to fondle him or go down on him as you pull over on a secluded country road. You’ll be feeling the warmer temps of your vacation destination sooner, rather than five long hours later.
Also see: A Guy's Guide to Gals on Giving Amazing Oral Sex
Throw a Wet T-Shirt Contest
Relive spring break ‘88 (minus the Aquanet bangs) and surprise your guy with an impromptu peep show. Slip on a damp white tee or tank and let him sneak a peek. Add in some unexpected timing, like when he’s reading the newspaper or watching television, and be prepared to clear your schedule for the rest of the afternoon!
Create a Heat Wave
Ditch the air conditioning for an extra sweaty romp one hot night. Salty kisses, wet hair and slick bodies add to the intensity and make your usual boudoir routine seem extra exotic, says Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., M.S.Ed., a sexual health and relationship ambassador for Astroglide. Hit the shower together afterwards to cool down and to prep for round two.
Also see: 10 Cool Sex Moves for Hot Summer Nights
Pitch a Tent (pun intended)
Whether you’re camping in the woods or in your own backyard, set up a tent outside for a fun change of venue. Sex outside seems more adventerous somehow, and you’ll get added privacy from being zipped up away from everyone (just keep the sound low!). Remember to wear bug spray, reminds sex educator and author Tristan Taormino. No one wants mosquito bites where it's not polite to scratch.
Say No to Tan Lines
Find a nude beach, or at least one where no people are around (just don't get caught!) and strip down for some R-rated fun in the sun. The thrill of lying naked outside when no one else can see you will be a total turn-on, says Claire Cavanah, Babeland co-founder and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. But don’t forget the sunblock! Apply it at least 20 minutes before, er, exposure, says Fulbright. Repeat use as necessary, and remember to take care of those extra sensitive spots, which usually don’t see the light of day.
Have Some Sangria Sex
There’s nothing wrong with having a little tipsy, carefree sex! Loosen your inhibitions and stock your cupboard with some summer cocktail staples, like tequila, vodka and rum, along with fruit juices like pineapple, orange and cranberry, as if you're in a sexy tropical destination with your own cabana boy -- your man. Set the mood with a frothy concoction to unwind after a day at the office and pretend you’re back on summer vacation. Think: tried-and-true island faves like pina colada, sangria, margaritas and, of course, sex on the beach.
Also see: 50 Summer Drink Recipes
Ride the Rides
Next time the clowns come to your town, buy two tickets to the fair and get it on on a ride. Without getting kicked out of the park, pick a dark, isolated ride like the Ferris wheel and hop in with your honey. The slow-moving ride and semi-private cars can provide the perfect location some top-of-the-world smooching or even naughty manual fun.
Hit a Homerun
Baseball, boring? Nah. Just join your fella for the next game, and let him know some secret stakes – if he does well, the player won’t be the only one scoring that day. Set up prizes for each base a player makes it to. If the game ends with players on first base, then give your man a little “first base.” Count the number of home runs your team scored and promise your man an equal amount of them when you get back home. The building excitement and energy of the cheering fans can make for the best victory celebration (even if your team loses). After all, there’s a reason this sport spawned oodles of sex metaphors! Round the bases and enjoy a slide into home.
Bring Out the Slip ‘n’ Slide
For a twist on been-there-done-that shower sex, snap up this slippery summertime plaything. Sport your sexiest suit and take turns sliding across the plastic sheet with your man until you’re ready to turn it into grownup fun. Or, turn on the sprinklers for a similar ahh-inspiring feeling. But take note: Water can ruin natural lubrication, so use a silicone-based lube to stay comfortable, says Jennifer Jolicoeur, founder and president of Athena’s Home Novelties.
Rev Up Your Pulse
Try some activities that get your heart rate pumping. Adrenaline increases your ability to be aroused, so you’re more likely to want to tear each other’s clothes off after a day of skydiving than after a day of sitting in the park. Take advantage of the warm weather and try rock climbing, hiking, riding roller coasters or some other pulse-boosting activity with your partner. The thrill of adventure will serve as mental foreplay that’s sure to carry over to the bedroom.
Feast on Sexy Seasonal Foods
Whether you’re throwing a BBQ for two or a picnic in the park, be sure to include seasonal aphrodisiacs like avocado (guacamole, anyone?), strawberries and asparagus. The vitamin B6 in avocados is believed to increase male hormone production, while asparagus contains vitamin E, which helps stimulate both of your sexual juices. Besides their amorous health benefits, strawberries and other summertime fruits, such as raspberries, also make tasty treats that you can hand-feed your sweetie.
Also see: 6 Foods to Get You in the Mood
Play with Popsicles
Skip ice cubes, and instead take turns sliding popsicles along each other’s bodies, paying special attention to the neck, nipples, backs of knees and inner thighs. The cold on your skin creates a drives-you-crazy tingly sensation, popsicles are way tastier than plain old ice cubes, and all that dripping will eventually lead to a two-person shower -- where you can continue the fun inside.
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