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    Would you sign a contract to date a colleague? Companies might require it

    Some companies are starting to ask two dating employees to sign a contract. (Credit: Thinkstock)

    Up until now, office romances have been a touchy topic and somewhat frowned upon. Anyone who has seen "Bridget Jones's Diary" or has even so much so as dabbled in the pool of love with a fellow co-worker knows first hand just how secretive you have to be, just how messy things can get.

    But now that is changing, with some American employers asking their lovesick employees to sign a "love contract," a document which - according to Forbes - office lovers acknowledge before in writing that their relationship is consensual and that they understand the company's sexual harassment policies.

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    In Canada, 30 per cent of workers say they have dated a co-worker at least once, according to a CareerBuilder survey.

    Ilan Jacobson, managing director and HR representative at FirePower Capital, says he has not heard of this type of contract being implemented anywhere in Canada, but understands why this could be effective.

    "As an employer you want to be proactive with all sorts of situations," says Jacobson, who sees the contract as absolving the employer from any legal responsibility, should things not work out in the relationship.

    Knowing office relationships have the potential to get messy, Jacobson says he would only require a "love contract" if there was an issue at hand with a particular couple, to prevent any potential sexual harassment complaints.

    "I don't think that it's the employer's right to tell people who they can and can't see romantically," says Jacobson.

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    Toronto-based employment lawyer Daniel Lublin agrees with Jacobson on that front, saying, "When it comes to dating at work, there are no laws against it and there should not be.  Courts generally do not want to be involved in office politics or romance unless there is some form of harassment."

    However, he adds, "While companies may feel better about having a signed agreement in place that demonstrates the relationship is consensual, in reality, this will not shield the company from liability. Following a good human resources policy and training is much more effective than a 'love contract.'"

    So what do you think?  Would you sign a love contract at the office, or does the whole process sound daunting and you'd rather sneak behind closed doors?

     

    8 comments

    • Kyle Rees  •  Newmarket, Ontario  •  2 months ago
      I met my husband at work. We have been together 10 years now. When relationships go bad - work contract, marriage contract, prenup - nothing can prevent the ugliness. However, I do believe in an employer's right to take steps to stay out of the whole mess...Too bad children of failed relationships couldn't implement and enforce their own contracts.
      • Suzanne 2 months ago
        I agree with employers trying to protect themselves if co-workers are going to see each other anyways. I also met my hubby at work and was married 18 years before he passed at the young age of 56 (sigh).
    • Potty Mouth  •  Vancouver, British Columbia  •  2 months ago
      I'd sign it if he did. After all, look at the case of the two cops here that got caught doing it in a police car and now she says it was forced. No one can afford this sort of crap. Then again, there are so many fish in the sea, why risk making your job uncomfortable after a break up by dating anyone there? Seems to me that it's best to date outside of work and make an effort to reach out socially to meet people in a natural way--not thru dating sites that don't work for most and aren't natural ways of meeting people.
    • ..  •  2 months ago
      Sign contract while dating in schools/universities too?
    • SophiaPetrillo  •  Toronto, Ontario  •  2 months ago
      The sign no schtooping at work should suffice. It's stupid and never turns out well and one of the two end up leavingthe company usually the person in the more junior position.
      Ya got ta ask yo'self is your job worth a poke in the whiskers?
      because if it is you have bigger problems in life than the flirtatious office ho' whomever he or she may be.
    • ..  •  2 months ago
      Only Americans would come up with this contract!
      • Dave 2 months ago
        I wouldn't need a contract to date you Ally. I'd give you everything ! :)
      • A Yahoo! User 2 months ago
        Contract dating and marriages for that matter go back a few thousand years.
      • A Yahoo! User 2 months ago
        Apparently Dave is broke.(either as in has no money or can't be fixed)
    • Lily  •  2 months ago
      the whole turn on about dating someone in the office is the sneaking around part. its not that much fun if everyone find out.
    • HL  •  2 months ago
      if she is rich , i will .
    • A Yahoo! User  •  2 months ago
      Early withdrawal penalty?
      • A Yahoo! User 2 months ago
        Depends wether major extensions are granted.
      • .. 2 months ago
        Viagra helps?
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