Don’t Pass Judgment
Your friend may speak badly of her ex, but it’s best for you to stay neutral when it comes to boy talk. Focus on supporting your friend, not on trash-talking her ex. It may seem helpful at the time to tell her you always thought he was a so and so, but you’ll be the one eating your words if she ever gets back together with him.
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Check in on Her
No one wants to feel like they’ve been put on suicide watch, but getting a text here and there is always a nice little pick me up when you’re down. Think of times during the day when your friend may be alone or bored and send a quick and cute message.
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Bring Flowers
When you see your friend for the first time after hearing about her breakup, bring her flowers or a treat like her favourite cookies. It shows you’ve been thinking about her and what woman doesn’t love receiving flowers?
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Invite Her Out with New People
Be mindful of your friend’s need to move at her own pace. Not everyone is of the “The Best Way to Get Over Someone is to…” philosophy, but it’s still important to socialize with new people. Invite her to a party where she can mingle and be reminded that there are plenty more fish in the sea.
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Talk Her Up
Breakups can be a huge blow to the ego. Your friend needs a cheerleader right now, and that’s you! Spare no opportunity to remind her of how great she is and how much you value your friendship with her.
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